You Aren’t Your Failure

Just when you fail at some point in life, you want to make sure you don’t repeat the same mistake again. In the process of making sure you don’t fail again, you push yourself too hard. You don’t want to fail this time, not now, not ever. You want to make sure that everything you do, every step you take, is perfect.  So, you, no longer strive for things to be good, you want them to be great. You don’t want to settle for less, not anymore.

You spend days and nights working on yourself, making everything great again. You give each moment of your life a purpose to achieve the best for you but you struggled significantly more than you should have and you’re losing hope.

You don’t see a chance of healing. It isn’t happening.

You don’t even see a chance of it happening.

Doing this, you feel too pressured that it is now tearing you down. It is breaking you into pieces. You know you’re not okay, but rather you act like you are in any case. You are trying really hard; struggling to understand what happened, trying to convince yourself that you are alright. You don’t want to feel anything but numb and it is just getting too hard to feel this emotion.  You want this feeling to stop. You need the world to stop.

You start to question yourself, you start to question your abilities, you start to question the possibilities of all the ‘what ifs’.

What’s worse is that you’ve lost hope, because your dreams are now turned into nightmares and all your desires are now the aches. You learned it hard way.

In your journey to run after perfection, you often forget that you are permitted to make errors and mistakes. You are permitted to learn from your mistakes and that you’re permitted to feel awful about yourself but only for sometime. It is okay to feel down after a failure, because what is important is to pick up the broken pieces of you.

You are imperfect, much the same as every other person. Forgive yourself for making mistakes and hurting yourself in the process because when all the other things fails, the only person going to be there for you, is you.

 

You Are The Power

The more I talk to myself, the more I get to understand my value. My worth. My power.

I get to remind myself of the amount I had taken myself for granted. I cried, felt little, I still do sometimes. It’s alright. I have come to realize that the time I didn’t take care of myself is the time I had to confront to hardest difficulties.

It’s so unimaginably essential to deal with yourself, to support yourself; to give yourself all the adoration that you deserve, since the majority of that is your strength.

It’s essential to keep feeding your mind, your spirit, and your soul as the greater part of that encourages you to see the world around you.

Try not to house or sustain what shouldn’t be there in your heart, mind or just entirely your life.

In particular, encircle yourself with the people who persuade, motivate and help you. Your vibe can make the same amount of good as it can make bad, so encircle yourself with extraordinary people. They are your indications of light.

If you are a woman, always remember that you are a gift of God. Whenever you feel less, help yourself to remember that. You are a blessing, you are intense. The world needs you like never before.

I still wait for the day when each and every women out there understands the power we have.

Sensitive People Don’t Over-React

“Acting na karo”

(Stop the drama)

Being a very sensitive person is not over-dramatization of an emotion or even over-reaction. People who are very touchy cannot help to how they respond to specific occasions. It’s exactly how they are.

Being a highly sensitive person is having the capacity to listen expertly. It’s having the capacity to take in, adapt, ingest the information effectively and considering it in an inconceivably profound way. Being an exceeding sensitive person is considering and reflecting in a way that many individuals don’t know how to do.

People who are delicate and over-sensitive are exceptionally unique and it is hundred percent true on the grounds that they normally are extraordinary at considering themselves and knowing right away when something is right and when something is wrong.

Being a profoundly delicate person means being unimaginably compassionate to others and being incredibly empathetic. It’s always being in someone’s else’s shoes, listening to them and never judging them. 

It requires some extra energy in everything that you do when you are a sensitive person as you carefully measure all the ups and all the downs and the pros and cons. You’re always watchful of the decisions you make and never settle for incautious choices or wrong decisions.

Being an overly sensitive person is the celebration of more crying however it has nothing to do with the shortcomings. It’s being more open to the people and trusting their entire being, giving your emotions a chance to show and passing on the truth to the world without lament.

Don’t confuse being sensitive with being weak or being a cry-baby. 

It’s being strong enough to show up your emotions to the world when you’re happy or sad.

Being sensitive and delicate with emotions is too beautiful to explain in a world where emotions and feelings are not respected.

In a world, we are again and again told to hide our feelings because that shows how strong we are, overly-sensitive people show us how it is okay to show your real emotions and it is okay to be human.